Core Torah Jewish values define our approaches to life-cycle issues like marriage, divorce, gay orientation, and death. In public and political debates and discussions concerning these issues, it is totally legitimate and even imperative that we honestly and respectfully give voice to those core Torah beliefs and eternal Jewish values. Those beliefs necessarily inform our stands on such public policy issues.
At the same time, we do and must recognize that America is a wonderful secular state, not a Torah society. The separation of church and state is part of the American idea and mystique. Therefore, we often will choose to be judicious in deciding how far to push our beliefs in the national debate, motivated not by whether some people will be offended by the Torah’s eternal truths but by the practicality of asking “Now that we have borne witness, must we press into people's faces?”
Halakhah defines when life begins, when life ends, when a marriage is sacred, when abortion is permitted or even positively indicated, when forbidden. It is appropriate to bring these eternally held views into the national discussion because they help inform that discussion. Perhaps most importantly, when we do quote “Jewish law” and advise the public of “where Judaism stands,” it is important to be honest. Judaism is not liberalism, and it is not conservatism. Judaism is not the Democrat Party platform nor the Republican Party platform. Rather, Judaism is Judaism – the halakhah – on its own terms. Perhaps nothing is as confusing, as offensive, and as repugnant to integrity than the practice engaged in by some national Jewish organizations that misrepresent authentic Judaism and halakhah just so that they may fit in with the secular ideologies that truly animate them.
A circle does not naturally fit perfectly into a square. A size 11 foot does not naturally fit into a size 7 shoe. Judaism should not be contorted and distended just so that a secular ideologue can fit her ethnicity into a secular debate when the honest position of Judaism differs from that of her preferred secular ideology.
Answered by: Rabbi Dov Fischer