Judaism should be “pro-life” – not necessarily as the term is used in politics today, but in nurturing human life whenever possible, and extinguishing it only in the most pressing circumstances. Jewish law does not view fetuses as human beings, but as potential human lives, and therefore worthy of protection. In most cases, we should frown on terminating pregnancies, except to care for the pregnant mother, who is already human, while the fetus is still only on the path toward becoming human.
But in some cases embryo reduction can be necessary to sustain a pregnancy and to help a woman deliver healthy children. Often infertility doctors place multiple embryos into a woman’s uterus, to increase the likelihood that at least one will thrive. But sometimes they get too lucky. Ironically, a woman who has struggled with infertility may now carry five embryos. Multiple pregnancies have much decreased rates of successful delivery, much higher rates of fetal defect. Sometimes, it is medically directed to “reduce” – that is, selectively abort – some embryos so that others may survive.
While Jewish law forbids killing one person to save another – for as the Talmud says, “how do you know whose blood is redder?” – legal authorities across all streams widely agree that it is appropriate to terminate some fetuses so that others will make it healthily to birth. The point, after all, is to be fruitful and multiply and raise another generation of Jews.
There remain two hard questions, however. First, how do you choose which fetus(es) to abort? Is it ethical to use this as an opportunity to select sex or some other trait? Jewish ethics prohibit that kind of manipulation. Often doctors can identify that some fetus is genetically or constitutionally weaker, already less likely to survive. That fetus is the first candidate for reduction. If you cannot distinguish based on the strength of the fetus itself, the next candidate might be its position within the uterus. Some fetuses might be more accessible for the doctors to terminate with less chance of complication. But if there is no objective way to distinguish between fetuses, pure random chance – a coin flip, effectively – is the only fair way to select abortion candidates. Any other method of choosing who will live and die becomes a kind of playing God that is likely to diminish our reverence for each life.
Next, what number should be reduced to save what number of others? Couples face this hard problem all the time. No one would question the need to reduce five implanted embryos – people are not normally capable of carrying and delivering five babies. But the hardest cases and grayest areas come when reducing from three embryos to two, or from two to one. In principle, we should follow the expert advice of physicians. When doctors recommend aborting a third fetus to carry two, we should follow that advice without hesitation.
But doctors sometimes endorse carrying triplets, and rarely recommend reducing from twins. Understandably, parents might anxiously prefer singletons and not want twins or triplets. Nonetheless, medical indications are the principal reason to reduce. Absent doctor’s advice to abort for the sake of increased likelihood of successful delivery, I would argue against reduction. To avoid having to make such ambiguous decisions, couples might implant no more than two embryos at once. Although this could decrease the likelihood that any of the embryos would “take,” it would also keep you from having to terminate a potential life.
Answered by: Rabbi Jeremy Kalmanofsky