Turns out, comedian, actress and writer Tiffany Haddish has a Jewish father. In a recent interview on the Jimmy Fallon show, she discussed how she found out about her connection to Judaism.
As a teenager, her grandmother told her about her background, but she didn’t initially believe it. Later, she started working as an energy producer on the Bar and Bat Mitzvah circuit. But it wasn’t until she met her father 13 years ago that her connection began to solidify.
“I met my father, finally, when I was 27,” she told Fallon, “and he broke it down to me and said, ‘Yes’. In the country that he’s from, it was kind of illegal to be Jewish and that he fled and there was a war… I believed him because I was so drawn to it. And then I did my 23andMe [DNA genetic testing] and then, you know, boom, Hebrew over here.”
For her 40th birthday on December 3, 2019, she had a Bat Mitzvah with Rabbi Susan Silverman, sister of sister of comedian Sarah Silverman, officiating.
(PHOTO CREDIT: Janice Silverman)
Haddish told Fallon, “I’ve been studying Hebrew now for the last four or five months now. I’m reading the Torah.”
Toward the end of the interview, Fallon handed her a mic and encouraged her to sing Hava Nagila, which she sang for the opening of her new Netflix special Black Mitzvah.
Now I personally think Tiffany Haddish is a talented woman, and I appreciate that she took time to learn about and connect to her Jewish heritage.
But it has to be said.
She does not seem to know the real words to Hava Nagila.
So, as a public service, I’m presenting the actual lyrics here, in transliteration and in English translation.
Hava nagila, hava nagila
Hava nagila ve-nismecha
Hava neranena, hava neranena
Hava neranena ve-nismecha
Uru, uru achim
Uru achim be-lev sameach
Let us rejoice, let us rejoice.
Let us rejoice and be glad.
Let us sing, let us sing.
Let us sing and be glad.
Wake up, wake up brothers.
Wake up brothers with a joyful heart.
Haddish is not the first adult who has struggled to learn some Hebrew.
For adults new to Judaism, or new immigrants to Israel, it can be a challenge.
I’m in awe of children of English-speaking parents who grow up in Israel and
are completely bi-lingual, with perfect accents in both languages.
With God's help, that will be my grandchildren's experience.
But that’s not my story at all.
I didn’t learn the Hebrew Alef-Bet until I was in my 30s. And despite a history of other academic success and thousands of hours of adult Hebrew classes, working independently with cassette tapes (eventually transitioning to digital files) and Hebrew apps, mastering Hebrew has proven to be a perpetually elusive goal for me.
Nevertheless, every bit of Hebrew I acquire is precious. And it will probably be a lot easier for you than it has been for me.
So here are a few tips for getting more Hebrew into your life.
1) Most of what I have learned I learned from Pimsleur, a scientifically-proven method that focuses on conversational skills One of Pimsleur’s most interesting findings, one that my own experience supports, is that rote memorization simply doesn’t work. You need to use language in context. Pimsleur isn’t free, but it’s been the most effective system, even more than the five months I spent in an Israeli ulpan.
2) This might surprise you, but the Jewish Agency recommends NOT starting with learning the Hebrew letters, but rather with listening to real spoken Hebrew however you can. Besides, if you’ve been to Hebrew School, you've probably already learned Alef-Bet.
3) Watch Israeli TV with subtitles. Watching Fauda on Netflix is a great place to start.
4) If you’ve mastered Hebrew reading, try reading simple children’s books in Hebrew. The pictures will help you figure out the meaning of some of the words you don’t know.
5) Duolingo offers free Hebrew lessons in five-minute chunks. I use the app on my phone.
Now having sprinkled some of my Hebrew language fairy dust on you, you’ll have to excuse me.
אני צריכה ללכת ללמוד עברית עכשיו
I have to go study some more Hebrew now.
I’m feeling a bit competitive with Tiffany Haddish.
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